I cannot, for the life of me, understand what urges us to give the last word in a an argument, end of a relaish, or discussion that we feel the slightest amount of passion for. There have been more then a few times when I wish I had kept my mouth shut. Better that, than having to heave my own foot back into it later. I understand that there comes a point in these situations when I should step back, and try not to share my thoughts. But when I start analyzing...and over-analyzing, I just can't seem to help myself.
by Vanessa
In my experience, speaking up usually ends up hurting my case more than helping it. I act on emotion. And it is horrifying. When a good debate is firing up, it's fun to get involved. But it's not so cut and dry sometimes, and you must take into consideration that there are always two sides. [I feel incredibly selfish because this has recently slipped my mind] Plus, when you act on impulse, and you end up that girl that gets the last word in when there is absolutely no need, sometimes... you wish very, very much that you just hadn't.
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